Saturday, July 17, 2010

Fatherhood and Evangelism

Life has been really busy as the Lord has graciously given me a new brother (in law) and a daughter in the last month so I haven't had much time to write as I have had in the past.

Having a daughter really didn't set in for me during the pregnancy, even though it literally did for my wife, until we went to the hospital. We have an almost 3 year old boy already and our daughter was just born on our anniversary weighing 10.5 pounds! My wife did a great job in giving birth to her! Praise God! Through the experience I have noticed that one of my strengths is that I don't worry very much about things when it comes to the serious stuff because I know that God is sovereign and in control. However, my weakness lies in sweating the small stuff. It's odd how that works out, because God is always in control of all of it.

I'm basically writing to talk a little about what has been going on and my reflections of being a father of two and evangelism. Honestly, my outlook on fatherhood hasn't changed much with the new addition of my family. When I found out I was having my boy almost 3 years ago I started researching, reading extensively, and listening to sermons on raising a godly son or daughter. I have always enjoyed teaching and working with children and I am extremely passionate about parenting because it is a calling and a God-given responsibility that should be embraced by every parent, especially the head of the family, which is the father.

I have definitely already made mistakes as a parent, but the biggest mistake when it comes to children is not admitting to them when you have wronged them, not prayerfully doing something about it, and not asking for forgiveness of the ones you have done it to. There has always been this cliche that a parent can't be wrong or especially let the child know, which is a great flaw in itself. Even though I have a toddler and infant I am beginning to see how serious, but joyous parenthood is meant to be, especially when done biblically. I've learned that the key to parenting doesn't start with the child, it starts with God and then your wife, or spouse. Many of my weaknesses or short comings are reflected in my handling of situations and treatment of my wife. A wise man once said if you want to know how a man really is then ask his wife. There is a a boat load of truth to that statement!

Through much prayer, reflection and study of scriptures my family has grown this past year. It is not a smooth process to establish certain rules or guidelines and go against most of what our culture says is acceptable, especially having grown up in it, but when you really step back and compare what is happening nowadays to what scripture really says and how things were in the last 100 years ago it really isn't all that surprising why we are where we are culturally today. I know the road ahead is going to be a difficult one for our family as we will be doing some things differently with our children, but the end result is for the glory of God and the best interest of our family in serving Christ.

On an evangelism note, I haven't got to go and witness anywhere due to my first job as a witness, being a leader for our family and partner to my wife. I still have to be humbled sometimes to realize that evangelism is important and everyone is to be doing it, but there are other responsibilities as well, which is how I lead and serve my family for Christ. I thank the Lord that he brought a (former) Mormon missionary who was questioning the existence of God and two Jehovah's Witness encounters to my house since I could not leave it much the during the last month.

I'm thankful for my wife, sister, father, and mother who understand how important spreading the Gospel is to me, or how important it is, period. My sister let me place a ton of tracts around at her wedding, which is a really cool and admirable thing of her to do. A lot of people and "Christians" are embarrassed by Gospel tracts, just what I've seen from my experience. My parents and wife also reinforce my efforts as well. I know that handing out tracts to people and witnessing publicly is not a popular thing to do at all, but there is more at stake than being socially acceptable, souls.

I was able to go and witness at my favorite fishing spot last night, the Harbor, and talk to many people concerning their eternal salvation. There were really great conversations, but I always tend to dwell on the one or two that don't go quite the way I want them to, but again, a Christian's responsibility is planting a seed of that which is the Gospel, no matter what the reaction is. If I go a week without sharing the Gospel with someone face to face then I find it extremely difficult to start back up, it's kind of like exercising! But by praying for the leading and strengthening of the Holy Spirit all things are possible.

So to wrap up, fatherhood is great, but I take it very seriously. The time we spend with our children is more important than sports, hobbies, TV, or anything else. Quality time comes from quantity time. The more time we spend with our children the more quality time and teachable moments there will be opportunities for. I have found that my biggest battle is not with the flesh, or Satan, but with wordiness. I think it is the most subtle of the three and the most prominent in our American culture, but that is a whole other topic for another day.


May God bless you and yours and thank you for reading!

In Christ,

Joey

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Providence?

I often pray to the see the hand of God at work in life when it is already so obvious. Once I take a step back from the worldliness I am so susceptible to it's as if a veil is torn from my eyes. However, when I pray for something so much I sometimes lose hope over the request and it comes back and hits me like a ton of bricks! This is a great thing by the way!

My wife is pregnant and looks as if she is going to deliver any day now. We also have a toddler that I have to watch like a hawk, because as smart as he is, he gets into everything! This has hindered my evangelism efforts and I find myself frustrated at times, but my first obligation is serving God by being a leader and supporter for my family. I have prayed for balance over this since I became born again and the Lord has truly given me a greater peace over this issue.

Since I haven't been able to go out I have been talking to people on the internet and witnessing that way. Although, internet witnessing is very valuable and God can use it, I prefer talking to someone face to face when it concerns the things of God and their eternal salvation. Now I'm going to explain why I named this post "Providence".

The last couple of weeks I have been leading a Bible study at our house. Yesterday it just so happens to be our Bible study day and no one shows up so we don't have it. I hear someone knocking at the door and it is a pest control salesman trying to get me to switch services. I reluctantly picked up a tract off of my "tract table" by the door where I have a sign for people who enter our house to take tracts or different kinds of booklets or Bibles. So we both talked for a little while and I basically told him in a nice way that I'm probably not interested, but I would like his info. on it.

We were parting ways and I handed him a trillion dollar bill gospel tract. Usually people take them and walk off in a situation like that, which is what I expected him to do. But he started asking me about it and what it was. I told him it was a gospel tract and has a good message on the back, as I was making my way to go inside. (I wasn't prepared nor expecting to have a witnessing encounter). He then asked me what church I went to and I said that I currently do not go to a church, but I am a born again Christian. This is the shocking thing right here. He then told me that he is LDS (Mormon) and he used to be a missionary for years over in France. He doesn't really consider himself one anymore because he has been doubting the existence of God lately and hasn't been doing any good works.

He then asked me how do I know that there is truly a God because lately it has been on his mind a lot because he could die any day and he just doesn't know. This is one of those questions that every evangelist wants to hear and I don't hear someone earnestly ask it very often. We discussed how conscience, creation, and the Bible point to a Creator God. I then asked him if there is a God if he would be good enough to go to Heaven. He replied by saying, "a couple months ago I would have told you I was because of everything I was doing for the church, but now I don't think I would".

So we went through the law of God and the reality of hell along with who the person and deity of Christ is(what we were actually supposed to study at our Bible study that night). I explained the differences of LDS teachings and the Bible. He admitted that what I was saying makes sense, regarding faith and works. He asked me if I was 100% grace and I said yes, but here's the thing, because I knew what he was getting at. It is only by the grace of God that He saved me. There was nothing I could do to merit towards or for my salvation. You can't bribe a judge and you certainly can't bribe God. However, any true Christian saved by grace and changed by the power of God will produce works. Genuine faith without works is dead. A true faith will produce evidence of salvation through its works and fruit. If one is truly changed by God he/she will want to tell others and obey God's Word. Unfortunately, we live in a nation of hypocrisy.

We went through the gospel and talked about repentance and trust in Christ. How Christ is the only way and works cannot save us. I was impressed and touched that this individual asked about this because he told me that he really can't talk to his family and friends about his questions.

I am so thankful to God that he was so open to everything and seemed to grasp an understanding. This must have really been on his heart to boldly ask me what I believed the existence of God to be and how to be saved. I believe God put us in each others paths that evening and I let him know as well. He told me again that it is crazy because he had been thinking about these kind of things and really been struggling lately and didn't have anyone to talk to about it.

I emphasized that I care about him which is why I gave him the tract and was glad we got to talk. I also told him that eternity only has two destinations, not celestial, tellestial, terrestrial heavens, and outer darkness. Because God is so good, loving, and just that He will give sinners what they deserve, which is hell. He is also a righteous and holy judge and it is hard for us to comprehend the severity of what we think is "little sin" because His standard of morality is perfect. Ours is greatly flawed. People forget that God is Creator and we are creation.

Praise God for this experience. I know there are many who don't like gospel tracts, but God truly used it as an opener for this awesome encounter because I embarrassingly and sinfully wasn't planning on talking to Him about how he could be saved when he came to my door. I was uncomfortable (selfish) because I hadn't done it in quite a while and really wanted to just go inside. That is testimony of how much of a selfish sinner I am to this day and I thank the good Lord that He provides forgiveness and repentance when I mess up and sin against Him.

I want to emphasize though that if you have a loved one or friend who is of a different religion or has different beliefs than you, it is not always necessary to know everything about that religion. It is definitely helpful, but the true biblical gospel; by discussing where we stand with God and what sin actually is, which explains their need for the Savior, is and should be at the core of every witnessing encounter. The power of the Holy Spirit through the proclamation of the Gospel is what changes hearts, but again, apologetics and study is extremely useful in having some common ground when it comes to these kind of situations.

Please pray for my new friend Ryan and that the Lord would do a further work on His heart, because I believe with all of mine that He already is.

Thank you for reading and may God bless you and yours!

In Christ,

Joey

Saturday, May 29, 2010

The Faith Dilemma

I believe there is a huge dilemma in our post modern American culture especially as I talk to more and more people along with what I see in the media. There is this assumption that any faith as long as you have it is a good thing. Whether it be faith in your church, god, organization, aspiration, or anything else. The atheist or agnostic may tend to disagree with me, but I will admit that they have more faith (well blind faith) than I do. To believe that nothing created everything or to say "we don't know what or where creation came from" is to deny common and in depth evidence to the claim of biblical Christianity and a Creator God. To me that takes a huge amount of blind faith to think anything otherwise could be responsible when there is no such reliable evidence. It is nothing simply more than rebellion and an excuse to justify sin.

The truth is, is that faith in the wrong direction is deadly. No one will admit that different religions are wrong anymore. There is this assumption that if you disagree with someone regarding their religion and be accepting or even embracing of it then you are being loving. Now don't get me wrong, I am not saying one is to go on a witch hunt persecuting those with different beliefs. Before I get deeper into this please realize this blog is for those who call themselves Christians. Acceptance is a tricky word and please don't take it out of context when I use it in the way I did. Can I accept that someone is an atheist and converse with them, yep. Can I eat lunch with a Buddhist and be friendly and generally care for that person, of course! What I am talking about by acceptance in the above is the kind of acceptance that you accept that their religion will get them to Heaven or is okay for them as long as they are happy. You accept that you don't have a responsibility to share with them the one true way despite the repercussions on your relationship because their religion works for them. That is the acceptance which I don't think a true Christian should ever have.

If we call ourselves Christians and don't realize that Christ is the only way then examine yourself to see if you are in the faith. Jesus Christ is the ONLY way. Contrary to what other religions and sources say you have to know the Son to know the Father. That is comforting for me, but scary because there are so many out there who don't. Do you not realize this? If you do then ask yourself what are you going to do about it? Are you going to sit back and accept the fact that someone is literally on the highway to hell or are you going to share the greatest news that saved you from hell? If you have no desire to share the gospel then there is either a lack of true love for people or you yourself may not be saved. This is a huge deal.

I have written about this before, but find a good biblical gospel tract. www.livingwaters.com has great ones. If you don't feel comfortable talking to someone about the gospel you can hand one to them or put it in a place you know they will find it. You can even witness to people on the internet! Being Christians we need to go out and share the good news, biblically. It is a shame and makes me question many peoples salvation when they claim they are saved by grace, but have absolutely nothing to show for it except maybe a nice demeanor about them. Several religions have the works based outlook backwards while modern Christianity for the most part has none. Good works are the evidence of our salvation, not the means. Please, I beg of you to go share your faith because anything outside of the repentance and faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, who is fully God and fully man, leads to hell, an everlasting torment and punishment for sinning against a holy, loving, righteous, just God who provided a way for you through His Son.

I believe there are 4 reasons why people don't share the Gospel.

1. They are selfish.
2. They aren't confident in what they believe.
3. They don't know how.
4. They are scared.

#1 and #2 may reveal that one may not even be saved to be begin with if those are true. #3 is an excuse that can be easily overcome and #4 really ties in with #1 if you think about it. There are plenty of resources, including the best one of all, the Bible, on how to share the Gospel. If you have questions about it shoot me an e-mail and would love to talk to you and help you out.

I got off topic a little bit, but let me reiterate that all paths do not lead to Heaven. They do however lead to God...and judgment. Being a good person will not save anyone because there is not one who is good, especially me. Just having faith in anything will not save you. It doesn't matter what one believes, it matters what is true. Belief never creates genuine truth, however truth creates genuine belief. And that one truth is God's Word revealed in the 66 books of the Bible, not a church, person in power, "religious" figure, organization or any other "religion" for that matter.

Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." - John 14:6

"Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it." - Matthew 7:13

The narrow road that leads to life is Jesus Christ. It's what He died for and 11 of His 12 disciples and many, many, many others are martyred today for.


God bless you and yours.


In Christ,

Joey Acker

Saturday, May 1, 2010

His way is better

Last week I didn't get to go out and witness around the time or day I wanted. I was a little discouraged because the usual large crowd wouldn't be around and things weren't going exactly my way. Often, I forget that God's way is ALWAYS better than mine though. : )

So I arrived at my location pretty late and didn't expect to see very many people around, which I didn't, but prayed that my efforts wouldn't be fruitless. When talking to people, handing out tracts, preaching, we have to always keep in mind that it's not the size of the crowd, how many tracts we hand out, but rather who is in the crowd that God is going to use. What I mean is I could hand out thousands of tract in my life, which I have, and not ever see one person come to repentance and trust in Christ. I could preach to hundreds of people and not see one convert. Does that mean my efforts were in vain? No, because as Christians we are to share our faith regardless of the outcome. Evangelism is all about planting seeds.

I have met individuals that boast over how many people they have "lead to Christ" and list all the things they done, but in essence what matters is that we are wholeheartedly serving God and His command of the Great Commission. If you pass out one tract in your life time or share your faith with one person then God may use that and you are being obedient. Now is that an excuse not to do it again, no. I am emphasizing that we must not be discouraged when we compare our zeal to others unless we feel a godly conviction that we should be doing more for Christ.

This isn't very popular in the evangelical world, but I never pray a prayer with someone after I witness to them unless they ask because I do not want to give them false assurance that they are now saved. There is no one on this earth who can pronounce someone saved and there is no certain prayer or person who can save you except Jesus Christ. There are so many people who have been deceived because they felt that they were "saved" because they prayed a prayer or got dunked in some water. We honestly do not and will not know how many people we lead to Christ because that is a work of the Holy Spirit. Our job is to lead people to the biblical gospel by showing them their need for the Savior and the good news of what Christ did for them.

Now as I walked around I did have the pleasure of having two encounters. I talked with two girls and it was a very good conversation. I believe they understood and they were glad that we talked. The next conversation lasted over an hour with 2 guys and what appeared to be their 2 dates. We went through the good person test and they claimed they were Christians the whole time blaspheming the name of God. However, when we got done they started asking questions about Nostradamus, 2012, why God lets bad things happen, how do we really know that God exists? By the way, I LOVE answering questions because I love discussing these kind of things and if I don't know the answer I will find it for you if at all possible!

One of the individuals was a pastor's daughter, but unfortunately did not have a grasp on what salvation is. Now when I say they don't have a grasp on salvation I mean that someone who is truly a born again Christian will know the gospel and be able to tell someone how to be saved, because how then could that person be? If your salvation didn't involve repentance of sin...then there is something very wrong my friend. Repentance and trust in Christ = Belief. They are two sides of the same coin, not a work that you can do to earn it. Many have tried to say that you can have your cake and eat it too, which is EXTREMELY popular in religion. However, there is no such thing as a carnal Christian, but all who are born again continue to battle sin and grow in sanctification because of what Christ did and our love and reverence for Him. If you claim the title of Christian, but love your sin then please examine yourself to see if you are in the faith. - 2 Corinthians 13:5

Now back to the encounter! I unfortunately see this often and usually the first thing they tell me when we discuss their standing with God is that they are a pastor's daughter/son. One claimed to be "Cathelcism" (Catholic) and this one guy who kept trying to discuss politics and history with me said he was as well, but he corrected her pronunciation. I truly believe that the Lord guided the long conversation that we had because their questions were very sincere and the one girl who was Catholic told me that being in church no one ever answered these questions for her or really explained how to be saved. At first she said she went through confirmation so she thought she was saved, but didn't really understand it. The others agreed as well.

This breaks my heart, and I'm not just saying that because she was raised Catholic. I don't care if you call yourself Catholic, Baptist, or whatever. If you don't have repentance and trust in Christ alone for your salvation then you are just as lost as the rest no matter what title you go by. She genuinely wanted to know how we really stand with God, and if He even exists, and how we can be saved if He is real. I was so blessed by this encounter because they wanted some booklets on Christianity, Science in the Bible, and Salvation that I usually don't carry around with me, but I did that night.

I told them that we were talking for a reason and that I enjoyed talking with them and explained that I really did care about them. I also always try to end by reminding people that 150,000 people die everyday and we don't know when we will and to seriously consider where you will spend eternity. At the end of the conversation they all thanked me and the girl told that me that she truly believes that this would change her life. I pray with all my heart that it does. I've never talked with someone who I believed to be so sincere, but again, we just never know. I would greatly appreciate prayers for those people and that more laborers will rise to serve in the Great Commission and win souls for Christ. Maybe it's you reading this right now. If so, there are great resources at www.livingwaters.com!


Thank you and may God bless you and yours!

In Christ,

Joey Acker

www.needGod.com

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Feel Good Christianity?

This blog today is my response to many conversations and encounters I have had in person and on Facebook.

I am going to say some hard things, but please bare with me as it is always in love. I know that many do not agree with the way I do evangelism, or with the way I even present the Bible or the gospel. A lot of people do not support open air preaching or street evangelism either. As DL Moody said, "I like the way I am doing it better than the way you are not doing it", to a lady who criticized his methods. I have brothers and sisters in Christ who are in the same boat and I relate as well. One cannot use the answer because Jesus did not do it that way either, because He did and so did the apostles. Making friends with someone before sharing the gospel with them is not a good excuse. I don't think they would appreciate it if they knew you had an agenda to be there friend just so you could give them the gospel. Souls are at stake and we never know when time will run out for us or the lost.

The problem is that Christianity to many has become a category, title, or means of life enhancement. People are not taking God/Jesus Christ seriously. I see this from people throwing God's name around like He is their little buddy who sits on there shoulder and turns his head or laughs whenever they sin. I don't spend much time on FB other when I am posting something, but when I get a friend request I check their profile to look at their religious views. Many times I see them say, "I love God! Christian, Born again Christian, Jesus Rules! and other sayings signifying that they are indeed a Christian, but their profile says other wise. It is filled with cussing, fans of things a Christian probably shouldn't be fans of, and distasteful pictures. I also see this when people tell me they are "major Christians" after they just got done blaspheming His name, cussing, and wearing clothes or lack of that are sure to make a true brother or sister in Christ to stumble. That is heartbreaking, but a big truth in this country. I am looking at their fruit, not making unrighteous judgment.

I have seen people who defend soft preaching and half-truths and attack those who preach the whole truth. I have heard things such as, "well Jesus's message was radical for His time period." That is true, but at the same time if preached biblically it is radical for ours as well. Go out on the street and preach biblically and you will find that out quick. Do not down play the seriousness and the offensiveness of the gospel. It is the best news ever, but it does offend. If it doesn't then something is probably wrong and you are only having a bunch of people having their ears tickled. A half truth is a lie.

There are also many that use the famous "what would Jesus do" when trying to defend their radical political views or justify sin as well, treating the person of Christ like He was a hippy or something. When I encourage people to read or study their Bible and the attributes of God/Jesus Christ during a discussion that is when they pull the "well I don't believe everything in the Bible." My friend, if one does not believe the whole Word of God then how could you possible be a Christian. Examine yourself to see whether you are in the faith. 2 Cor. 13:5 We cannot pick and choose what we like and don't like in the Bible and create our own god. That is idolatry. - 2 Commandment.

If you are a Christian ask yourself these vital questions. What does one have to do to be saved? What is one even saved from? One isn't saved from nothingness, that is a lie. What is the gospel? These are crucial questions that many do not have the answer to, but they should know if they have truly been born again.

I have also seen people knock those who study theology, Bible and the history of Christianity. What is that all about?? How can studying God, His word and history related to Him ever be a bad thing? Have you ever sat through a church service and felt convicted at what the pastor said and felt like he was talking directly to you. That is probably because he was using scripture. The Word of God does that to us!

The defenses I have heard is that if one is constantly studying then they are not truly experiencing Christ. People, that is one BIG way that we do experience Christ. Through His word, knowledge, and service to Him is how we grow. The truth will set you free, not the tingles or goosebumps of a catchy worship song. I am not saying worship is bad, but many look to worship service as their only experience with God. Putting feelings and experiences over truth is dangerous. We have God's completed Word for a reason. Not everyone who studies it is a Christian, but I can't imagine any genuine Christian criticizing those who do.

Hell is real and should not be ignored. I am not talking about hell-fire preaching here, but I am saying that we should all know what we deserve and are in danger of. Not to scare us although it is needed for some, but definitely to warn us and have knowledge of what exactly Christ saved us from to those who will repent and trust Him. This is an extremely important doctrine and many do not like it which is why we have cults like the Jehovah's Witnesses and Mormonism, unfortunately there are many evangelical churches and denominations now that are doing damage, because they are blatantly ignoring it. The saddest part is that the cults usually are more zealous and knowledgeable of the Bible than most "Christians" even though they base everything that comes from it on a man's interpretation rather than taking it in context.

Many will disagree with me on this, but the purpose of building a church is not to attract a certain group of people. It is to be a BIBLICAL church and whoever comes, will come. If one is only trying to attract youth to come to their church or higher income citizens isn't that discrimination in a sense? I know there are jobs at stake, but if one is truly Christian the truth of the Lord Jesus Christ is more important than anything worldly. And there are biblical churches out there.

The bottom line is that there are lazy people who are either Christian or calling themselves Christian. I don't know how else to put it. If you won't study your Bible then that is laziness which fuels ignorance. Sin gets in the way sometimes, but we should always have that desire. If you know more about your job then you do your religion then that shows what your priorities are. We will sit and watch TV for hours, but pop open the Bible for 5 minutes to make ourselves feel better for doing our daily holy "thing" or as many call devotional. Again, devotionals are great, but don't use them as an excuse for your conscience's sake.

The ones who do these things are probably not the ones who will read my blog, because I am pretty sure I have already been stereotyped as a crazed radical as I see many people take me off their friends list when I post something from the Bible or even about how I love my wife...that is kind of weird to me. If you are one of these people though, please, please study His word and take God seriously because He is almighty and powerful and we will have to get an account for every word, thought, and deed one day. He is our judge and if you have not repented and put your trust in Him then you are in danger of hell.

God is love, but He is so loving and just that He will cast all sinners into the lake of fire for eternity. Rev. 21:8 He provided the way for you through His only Son, Jesus Christ 2010 years ago to suffer and die on the cross and then rose from the dead 3 days later forever defeating death. He is the only living God who sits in Heaven right now on the thrown and He commands that you repent, meaning change your mind-turn from your sin, and put your trust in Him alone. He will change your heart. You will love the things He loves and hate the things He hates. You will no longer dive into sin, but you will fall and truly hate it when you do. That is difference. He is the almighty King and all that is good, holy, and righteous.

If your Christianity is too comfortable then it may not be biblical Christianity. I am confident in my eternal salvation, but I am constantly at war with my flesh, Satan, and worldliness.


Thank you so much for reading and may God bless you and yours!


Have a great Resurrection Day!


In Christ,

Joey Acker

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Be Careful What You Pray For...

All week I have been praying for an encounter that is different, that I would really be able to reach someone who was evident of needing ministering or the gospel. I know many of the people I talk to are in need, but a lot of times I don't see any opposition. Trust me, I know there is, but I don't see it much. I don't want opposition by any means, but it does let you know that you are in the battle. The battle of truth that is and I believe that evidence is needed at times.

I felt very nervous driving to my usual spot last night and even as I walked towards my destination when I got there. I couldn't really explain the feeling since I am usually semi-comfortable in the environment. As I walked around I saw a group of what appeared to be a group of late teenagers or early 20's smoking way off by themselves by the lighthouse. I was reluctant at first, usually I am with my first encounter, but I prayed and proceeded on. Some of the individuals looked like the typical "I hate the world and am desperately trying to make a statement with my appearance." As I gave them the tracts I asked them what do they think is in the after-life.

This turned into a more than a half hour conversation so I'll try to sum it up. Two of the guys were pretty quiet until they wanted to chime in agreeing with their "Pagan" friend. I say that because the girl that was with them told me that she was Pagan and she can't say who goes where or if there is even anything. The other boy who spoke up a lot was raised baptist and was currently on a philosophical journey for truth. He claimed that because someone told him at a church camp that all Islams would go to hell and that he was baptized twice without any results he no longer embraced "Christianity." He was a very intelligent individual and I can say that I genuinely enjoyed our conversation together. He actually wound up defending Christianity to an extent to the girl who insistently claimed that if she can't see something, she can't believe it.

I did get through the good person test, but some of these people were really searching for answers and really wanted to get their jabs in at Christianity. I told her that the majority of our country's Christians are hypocrites. She used that against me saying that how can I say that about anyone. That is when I explained that Jesus Christ says in the Bible that you will know them by their fruit. If you disagree with me then look at who is in our office and what our media consists of. There are missionaries from other countries now trying to evangelize our country! She also said that the Bible has been twisted over time and compared it to the DaVinci Code. For everyone who says fictional books can't influence...well I'm telling you right now that they can and they do. This isn't the first time I have had someone use the DaVinci Code to try to disprove the validity of the Bible.

I normally don't get into apologetics much, but there is a rare time and a place for it in witnessing and this was it. The girl was getting really frustrated when I explained that there is evidence of a Creator because since there is a creation there must be a Creator, we have a God-given conscience and God's word. There also has to be truth because there has to be a standard of morality, but there is always a point in this kind of conversation where those who attack the Bible are pinned into a corner when the discussion of morality comes into place. Her defense was that she didn't believe we have a soul and that something didn't have to create everything. Her friends saw the foolishness of this claim as well. I really felt bad for her because I didn't believe she didn't believe there wasn't a God. I really think she hated Him for something. It was like watching and listening to a disobedient child.

For a minute they were trying to say there isn't a God because of Haiti and "bad things" that happen. I told them that what we think is good may not be God's idea of good and that is something we cannot understand or even accurately question. The bottom line is the whole human race isn't deserving of anything but punishment for sinning against a holy righteous God. No one can say they know why Haiti happened, but God will get glory regardless. I know that sounds harsh, but He is sovereign and His plan is perfect. I believe some forms of "natural disasters" are a deliberate act of God, result of sin, or just plain result of the environment, but again the bottom line is that God is in control and He owes nothing to us. They actually grapsed this concept.

She agreed with most of what I said until it personally applied to her. The most popular words of the conversation was, "well I believe" or "to me". The facts of the Bible I gave her didn't mean anything to her because of her same claim to that it is twisted. She hadn't studied it, but in God's word where it says, "the fool says in their heart there is no God" constantly ran through my mind. She left after we discussed morality with her friend, but two of the others stayed.

The philosophical guy stayed with his quiet buddy. He shared his background with me regarding Christianity and his journey for truth. I emphasized greatly there is only one way and that way is Jesus Christ. In regards to his remarks about Muslims going to hell, I told him that anyone who doesn't repent and put their trust in Christ is going to hell because of sinning against God. It's not popular, but it's biblical no matter what beliefs we hold to or what kind of picture of God we try paint in our heads. He told me he has an open mind and will think about our discussion and really enjoyed it. He also said that he disagrees with the views of his "Pagan" friend and that she has a lot of misconceptions.

Overall I believe it was a great encounter. They have some serious stuff to think about regarding their eternal destination. Most of the other conversations I had through out the night were the same as usual and went really well, but there was one that really stuck out besides that one. I approached a group of about 8 young teenagers who I had have given tracts to some earlier who were now sitting down. They had recruited a couple more people in their group. I asked if they read the back of them yet and they said no. I asked if I could explain what they were and they said yes. We started talking about the law of God and this one girl starts blurting out, "well God forgives, God forgives" over and over again. I said, I agree with you, but there is a condition and we must realize what that is. When we started discussing hell she blew up. She stated that we don't have to follow the 10 commandments and they don't apply because they were written by a man...

I asked where she got her information and she said her pastor told her that. She told me she goes to a certain church called New Life so I'm going to check it out. I told her that a man did not write the 10 commandments it was God. Then she told everyone that it was a man. I'm sorry, but I told her and everyone else that is a deliberate lie. A sweet little quiet girl said, "God gave Moses the 10 Commandments". The other girl got angrier when I asked if she is familiar with the Bible and she said she didn't believe in the Bible, but she trusted her pastor. She said I don't need to read the Bible and that I need to go to church.

Unfortunately, that is how many people are, but they don't say it. Many put their trust in a man over God's word, she was just bold about it. Her claim was that God will forgive everyone if they just ask not saying anything about Christ.

When I asked where the church was she got mad and said that I'm a stranger and she wouldn't tell me and then started attacking my character for not going to a church and mocking me. She didn't like the fact that I said I was 25 and had been to 5 churches growing up. I said that's fine, I was just asking because I wanted to find out more information about it, but I asked if she was a Christian. She replied by saying yes and asked me why. I asked her if she is a Christian then why is she being so hateful along with being hateful to someone who is trying to share God's word and the gospel with her. Her friends kept apologizing for her, but they said she is just "like that". After that she said let's go...I guess she was there leader. I even told her that I'm sorry that she is getting so upset and that wasn't my intention, but I was simply trying to share God's word with her because I really do care.

I sincerely hope that the pastor doesn't hold to those awful beliefs she claimed. I will contact the church just to make sure though. To me this girl represented a lot of what is going on today, but I couldn't believe her hateful manner. It was ridiculous and those surrounding her noticed to. I asked if anyone around wanted to stay and listen and some of them did and she walked off mad. Thankfully I was able to share the gospel with them and during the middle of it she walked back and gave me the tract saying, "I don't need this". I simply replied by telling her to have a nice night. Hopefully the Lord will do a work on her heart. I apologized to the remaining individuals for the ugliness that was going on and that what she was telling them wasn't truth. They said it was okay and that they stayed because they wanted to hear God's word.

The encounter left me shocked and a little down on myself, but the words of Tony Miano's "Don't Quit" ran through my head as I went back to my car. So I turned around and went back and talked with 2 more groups of people. The last group I talked to was awesome. One of the girls went to a Christian school the last two years and didn't know what the gospel was and all 3 of them thought that being baptized saves you.

I believe they understood the severity of their sin and the position they were in. Their facial expressions changed and eyes were watering as we went through. I pray that it was genuine. At the end of the conversation I asked if they understood what I was saying and they agreed. The guy asked me if he was still going to hell after we went through the gospel. I told him that is between you and God. You have to give up on your own self and cry out to Him. Whatever you love more than God is what you need to turn from. Repent and put your trust in Jesus Christ alone.

I was very blessed by the last conversation and was grateful for the Holy Spirit and the words of Tony Miano's "Don't Quit".

Basically, I got what I prayed for. I was praying for something different and I got it. I prayed for the Lord to do something big and He did it. I have never met two individuals who were so opposed to the things of God in the manner that they were.

May God bless you and yours!

In Christ,

Joey

Saturday, February 20, 2010

Fishing at the Harbor

And he said to them, "Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men." - Matthew 4:19

Everyone wants to know what their "calling" is. Everyone's calling is to be a witness for the Lord Jesus Christ. That is a good place to start, dwell, and grow when figuring out your purpose as a Christian.

I had the pleasure of going to my favorite fishing spot last night. It has been getting harder to get out and witness because my wife is pregnant and cannot watch my son by herself very often, thankfully I have been blessed with kind and loving parents who help watch him every Friday or Saturday night.

I unfortunately did not see the local Friday evangelism team out there from a local church, but there were crowds which I was thankful for. I started out by praying and expressing my humility to the Lord how I am not even fit to be a servant for His kingdom, but only by His loving grace. I will never understood why He chose to save me. The first group of people, I think it was about 3 guys and 3 girls, went really well. There is usually some joking around going on when we are going through the law and talking about the attributes of God, but the tone almost always changes immediately when we get to the question, "how do you think you would do on judgment day now that you have told me you are a liar, thief, blasphemer, adulterer at heart, and murderer at heart."

That is when people get defensive and start talking about how God is love and all forgiving. The court room scenario is excellent when it comes to this. I ask them what should happen in a court room, (everyone knows how it works). I ask, "what do you think would happen if you have murdered someone and are standing in front of the judge when it comes to your sentencing. You say that you are sorry and you really, really mean it. Now should the judge let you go because you asked for forgiveness or should he punish you for breaking the law? What would he do if he is really a good judge?" Everyone almost always agrees that a good, loving judge will punish them. I then ask what would they think if they had a million dollar fine they could never pay and someone walks up out of the blue and pays that fine for them. The usual response is, "I would love them, I would be thankful, I would think they are a pretty awesome person". That is when I explain to them the picture I am trying to paint.

God is so loving, holy, righteous, and just that He is our judge and will punish all sinners. It is not a popular message, but it is true. God does HATE. If you love babies then you hate it when they are killed, period. It is common sense. God is so loving that He HAS to hate sin. The Bible says the punishment for sin is death and that all liars will have their part in the lake of fire. Christ preaches more on hell in the New Testament than He does Heaven. Why? Because He is WARNING us of God's wrath! After I make sure they understand the seriousness of their sin we go back to the person that paid their fine. That person is Jesus Christ.

2,000 years ago Jesus Christ came, born of a virgin, fully God and fully man, never once sinned and willingly went to the cross where He suffered the wraith of man and God. He died on that cross and rose three days later FOREVER defeating death. The big thing when I ask everyone this next question is where there are a LOT of misconceptions. I ask, "the important thing is what does the Bible say you have to do to be saved"? We have already seen that saying your sorry will not save you. God is more righteous, good, and holier than a mere earthly judge." The responses I heard last night were, "be baptized, ask Jesus into your heart, give your life to Him, repent, or be born again-be baptized-and get the Holy Ghost".

The unfortunate thing is that no one understood the answers they were giving. I told them that the Bible says you must repent, which means a change of mind resulting in a turning of sin to Christ, AND TRUST in Christ alone for your salvation. I expressed that you have to turn from whatever sin or sins that you love more than God and turn to Christ. Being baptized, praying, asking for forgiveness and going to the right church CAN be good things in context, but they will not save you. The message of the gospel is repentance and faith in Jesus Christ alone. He is the ONLY way.

I really believe there were many that understood the severity of their sin that night and even understood the message of the gospel, but many didn't want to BELIEVE it. I always get excited and nervous when I go to witness, but it is always accompanied by sorrow because I know some of the answers I will get, the rejections, and the ugliness that comes with it. Through out the night there were many individuals who would simply walk away. I talked to about a group of 10 "wanna be" gang looking guys who walked away silently once I asked them if they have ever lusted after someone. One person literally started to eat the gospel tract I gave them...

The saddest thing I heard though is when I asked a couple of groups of people if they were going to heaven and they said, "I believe I am going because I am good person AND I am a Christian." When they told me they deserved hell later in the conversation they could not tell me what they had to do to be saved and they did not know what the gospel was. After the conversation, they would say, "I am already a Christian so I am going to heaven." I am sorry, but no one can be a biblical born-again Christian unless they have repentance and trust in Jesus Christ. A born-again Christian WILL know what the gospel is, because that is message of HOW they were saved!

Another thing I heard that broke my heart is when I was talking to a girl and she told me that she was baptized once, but she started sinning more and she felt worse about herself. She believed that she would be saved and feel closer to God by being baptized. I explained to her and her friends what the purpose of baptism was and how being dunked into water will not save you. Thankfully, that was clarified for her. One individual from a local church requested that I go preach there because he said that one of his preachers said, "no one has balls anymore and will not talk about hell." First, I am wondering why a preacher would be talking like that, second, that is just a sad to hear.

Someone claimed they were a born-again Christian and church goer and then turned it around by saying they don't trust the Bible because it doesn't talk about dinosaurs. They were adamant on why doesn't the Bible talk about dinosaurs. I simply replied by saying, "because the Bible is God's word to us on how to be reconciled to Him. It is not a science book." Even though there are some instances in the book of Job to a dinosaur like creature, I didn't feel the need to bring it up. The position of dinosaurs in the Bible is one that really doesn't need a defense when it comes to the gospel. I also told her that the Bible doesn't talk about hippos either...that made her think.

A very touchy thing that I have been seeing with teenagers now is homosexuality. They have problems with the Bible because it is against being gay. Understand, that this has turned into a cultural thing. The media is making homosexuality more and more acceptable and that is how our youth today is seeing it unfortunately. I told this individual that God's plan for marriage is between a man and a woman. We can see the repercussions of homosexuality and fornication by the development of STDs, AIDS, and other things that have come from the perversion of God's plan for us. Homosexuality is sin and God hates it. I'm sorry, but I cannot and will not candy coat it.

Many people asked me why I was talking to them about God if I did not go to church. I simply replied, "because I am a Christian." Part of my whole being on this facebook and blogging thing is because I want people to realize that Christians are not supposed to simply sit by and watch while proclaiming the title of Christian. You are either going down the well or you are holding the rope for the person who is. God uses the message of the gospel to save and that message is spread by His followers, CHRISTIANS. Theology is an extremely important thing, but I am finding way too many people arguing and debating without doing what God commands us to do. Dividing the truth is biblical and great like I said, but if you do not have an acting passion to reach the lost then I would ask that you PLEASE examine yourself to see if you are in the faith.

There are many people who are out there that like to poke at evangelists about how they do reach the lost and how they don't agree with it. I call it the little red hen syndrome. They don't want to do any of the work and still claim that they are Christian. If you don't share your faith then please do not tell those who love the lost and actually get out and do it, how to do it. I have been seeing the same thing in some of my little posts lately. Everyone wants to put on their Christian hat when they don't agree with what I say when their profile or actions is evidently more worldly than Christian. All I can say to that is, examine yourself first, please.

Overall, it was a blessing to be able to do God's work as it always is. It is not always easy, but being a Christian is not easy work. Don't get me wrong. It is fun, rewarding, humbling, humiliating at times, but none of those things matter because it is all for God's glory. I am a wretched man simply trying to serve my Father because I do love Him with all my heart and I really do love people. That is something I could not have said and meant before He changed me.

Fortunately, I truly believe there are individuals who will think about our conversations last night. One person I talked to I had spoken with three times before. I told her it was not a coincidence. The person who ate the tract asked for another after our 20 minute conversation was over and they even took a Bible. I rarely carry one in my pocket anymore, but God surprised me when I felt convicted not putting it in my pocket that night. I'm glad I did. Hopefully she will eat it mentally rather than physically. : )

Please say a prayer for these individuals and other laborers out there who proclaim the saving gospel of Jesus Christ. Thank you so much for reading!


May God bless you and yours!

In Christ,

Joey Acker